Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Pour Out

Most of the times in life just pouring out or sharing relieves one of the lifes pressures. A calm descends on oneself leading to happiness.
So if you are under pressure and just want to pour it out do it here . It may help.If you need opinions you could ask for it. Take it or leave it. You may not even need an opinion !just pouring out would have solved your pressures.

So why wait..Go on..share

Compassion Unlimitted (CU )

21 comments:

Joy said...

Is marriage means COMPROMISE ???

Compassion Unlimitted said...

I think its Blending more than a compromise.While sugar can melt in water and the water becomes sweet,in life, the qualities of each other merge for a common understanding. This i think is the esscence of life

CU

Joy said...

What makes life beautiful?

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Dear Joy,
I think when we disregard others negative qualities and look at positives a beautiful situation arises leading to happiness. with happiness all pervading ,life has to be beautiful isnt it ?

Rgds

CU

Joy said...

Can one survive loveless life?

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Dear Joy,
Loveless life.Is there one like that ? Normally we expect love from other side only. Love can be given in abundance by us to others too!!.The joy in giving away thigs including LOVE is one of ectasy.Try, you will find joy ,joy and joy . Only for clapping you need two hands.one will not do! but for love it can be one way too,even if other person does not understand and share or give love...so loveless life will get banished from this God created world

God Bless

CU

Joy said...

Does love vanish as the years roll on in marriages?

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Dear Joy,

Yes ,in some it does vanish.Unfortunately the numbers seem to be increasing.Just the other day i read an article that divorce rates and number of applications for divorces are on an increase even in a conservative place like chennai.Its totally sad.
Whers the love vanishing.The mutual respect for each other is reducing.Ego seems to be a root cause.or is it lack of compassion?
perhaps allowing each other some space to nurture their own individuality may help.
It is sad but love in current marriages seems to decrease with time..believe me it can be corrected and love can become abundant...its important that couples do not take each other for granted..it is to be avoided i guess

Take care

CV

Joy said...

was it like this few years back? I think women were taking the toll on them...so everything went on smoothly..

BiotechGirl said...

Hi
GR8 idea! Life is need based & so is marriage. I infer love as a medium for conducting this transaction & nothing more!
P.N: Wish you find a like minded person through this blog & settle in life!!
BG

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Dear Joy,
Thats a tough call.A diffucult question indeed.I think in world hierachy has been in excistence from time immemorial.Yes, perhaps at some point of time women had accepted domination by men and merely followed what they were told. But today its all changing.perhaps changing for good.any change always brings turbulance.May be be in time ,women may dominate the situation.Well,nothing ever is static its always dynamic.so perhaps the wrting is on the wall

CU

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Hey BG,
May be marriage is a contract for existance..But life ,dont think so is need based!!
Take care
CU

Joy said...

At times we need the love from others too.It cant be always one sided...Afterall ever our pets need to be shown the love we have for them..Don't we humans need to....?

Joy said...

Hi BG,

Life in not need based,but sure marrige is.We need love all through our life to get the marriage work out well.I think if one partner thinks about this,that pair can survive any turbulance or anything that causes a gap in their relationship.

Tc

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Dear Joy,

We all need love and there is no denial of it.But when the love we give,the love we wish to share,is not reciprocated ,then what do we do. Should we stop loving the person? Especially if the person is a spouse,then the issue is more than dangerous,is it not.the whole marriage will go loveless.then it becomes coexistance.This life will become meaningless and drifting away becomes the result.
Thats why I said love without expectation from otherside could be a better solution than no love at all.Its defenitely diffucult to visualise such a solution but the other choices are much more sad.
Perhaps a one sided love could eventually bring out the reciprocal love when the REALISATION dawns on the other person. For that one has to wait and it could be long.
But then thats life.But in these days ,when Quick Fix solution are order of the day,people tend to forget that when dealing with nature,of which humans are also a by product,patience is the only answer.

TC
CU

Joy said...

Does longing for love projects a person as a weakling?

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Compassion Unlimitted said...

Hi Joy,
Its again a difficult question.In my opinion any expectation in any form expresses dependancy.whether that is weakness or not depends on how you view it.
Love is definitely a positive stimulant.But craving for it means weakness.

TC

Joy said...

Hi CU,

Who doesnt have expectations in their life.At times expectations and hopes makes the life going.But we should have the mind strength to accept the failures and diappointments.
May be thinking about the other blessings we have, at times when we feel down and deprived,I think we can pull through the situation.

Thanks,

Rgds,
Joy

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Hi Joy,
I know it would have been disappointing for you when i said Longing for love is a sort of weakness.
I remember a famous saying by Swami Vivekanda..There is no market for your sorrows..so why advertise your feelings when it will not be appreciated by the other person.This other person could be any one,sometimes unfortunately the closest of the closest. But then thats life and if you still get the love ,sponge it off as if theres no tomorrow for its a rare commodity !!

CU

sulphurdreamz said...

Enlightening conversation.